The Importance of Self-Regulation
Relates to:
- Building Decision Skills: Lesson 1, Lesson 2, Lesson 3
- Elementary Decision Skills (K-2): Lesson 1: I’m A Member of a Group; Lesson 2: Group Work Needs Caring; Lesson 3: Group Work Needs Listening and Speaking
- Elementary Decision Skills (3-5): Lesson 1: There Isn’t A Rule for Everything; Lesson 2: Today’s Decisions Can Be Big; Lesson 3: Defining Ethical Values
- Ethical Literacy Outcomes: Knowing Values, Applying Values
- Schools of Integrity Finding: Authentic Student Input
Purpose:
- To help students think further about the importance of “self-regulation” especially as it relates to “trust”.
Preparation and Materials:
- Be prepared to read the scenario in step #1. If you want to re-enforce student reading skills, provide copies for them to follow along and/or volunteer to read aloud.
- Consider posting questions 1 – 7: see “Tips” below
Process:
Lead in discussion: Do you consider yourself trustworthy? Consider this scenario:
I hand a stranger my wallet full of money. I ask the stranger to keep the wallet safe until I come back for it several days later. When I return, the stranger hands back my wallet, intact.
Answer these questions for me:
- Would you now consider this stranger trustworthy? Why/ or why not?
- If I need to rely on someone in future , would you recommend I rely on this stranger? Why or why not?
- If this were your wallet, would you be happy with the stranger? Would you be happy with me for trusting the stranger with your wallet? Explain your answers.
- Is there anyone in your world you can trust with your wallet? If so, describe this person and why you trust him/her.
- What are the ways that I trust you, as students? In other words, in what ways do I rely on you to self-regulate during our class?
- For each idea the students suggest, ask: “what will probably happen if I can no longer rely on you for this? In other words, what’s the impact if you fail to self-regulate in this way?”
- Tell me other ways you wish that I relied on you to self-regulate. Are there ways I can trust you more than I already do?
Participation Tips:
Do you have trouble getting everybody to participate in large group discussions? Some possible solutions:
- Break your class into smaller, less intimidating groups, or consider pairing students up to answer the question series.
- Some students have a lot to say but they need processing time. Consider providing the questions to think about, then holding the discussion another day.
- Some students will write, but will not speak up. Have packs of index cards at tables and make writing answers an option.
Some students are more comfortable in role play than in discussion. Ask students to act out the answers to these questions.
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Question from Columbus Academy, an Ethical Literacy School
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